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What is Real Love?
It's well known more than 50% of marriages will ends up in divorces. And even remaining couples may not all be happy though they stay in the marriage. So it look's like the chance of having a happy marriage is less than 33%, if you follow the way how average people handle their dating and marriage. But why is it happened? And is it real chance to have good happy relationship? But what do we really know about love? And how we know it real love not temporary illusion.

Definitions of Love:

When people become love-struck, what happens in that instant is the couple probably discovers a unique something they have in common. It could be something as mundane as they both were reading the same book or were born in the same town. At the same time they recognize some trait in the other that complements their own personality.

The Good Marriages need to have these four types of love:

Simple                     Romantic
 Infatuation               Infatuation
 Sex Interest             Real Love





Even if all of these factors are negative, you can still build a good marriage. But you will have to work harder and be more careful in your mate choice.

FACTS ABOUT LOVE AND INFATUATION

Many divorces and unhappy marriages have roots of infatuation and sex interest only.
Most youth are not sure what real love is.
Age and maturity give no immunity of infatuation.
Teen and big age gup marriages have twice the risk that they will end in divorces.
One-sided loves won't work.

 
 
 
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