On the second Sunday in May, American children of
all ages treat their mothers to something special. It
is the one day out of the year when children, young
and old, try to show in a tangible way how much they
appreciate their mothers.
England was one of the first countries to set aside
a day to recognize mothers. In the eighteenth century
when many people worked as household servants for the
rich, "Mothering Sunday" was reserved for them to
return home to be with their mothers. Though this
custom stopped when the Industrial Revolution altered
the working and living patterns of the people, one
Sunday for Mothers was established as a holiday in the
twentieth century.
In the United States, Mother's Day did not become
an official holiday until 1915. Its establishment was
due largely to the perseverance and love of one
daughter, Anna Jarvis. Anna's mother had provided
strength and support as the family made their home in
West Virginia and Philadelphia, Pennsylvania where her
father served as a minister. As a girl, Anna had
helped her mother take care of her garden, mostly
filled with white carnations, her mother's favorite
flower. When Mrs. Jarvis died on May 5, 1905, Anna was
determined to honor her. She asked the minister at her
church in West Virginia to give a sermon in her
mother's memory. On the same Sunday in Philadelphia,
their minister honored Mrs. Jarvis and all mothers
with a special Mother's Day service. Anna Jarvis began
writing to congressmen, asking them to set aside a day
to honor mothers. In 1910, the governor of West
Virginia proclaimed the second Sunday in May as
Mother's Day and a year later every state celebrated
it.
On Mother's Day morning some American children
follow the tradition of serving their mothers
breakfast in bed. Other children will give their
mothers gifts which they have made themselves or
bought in stores. Adults give their mothers red
carnations, the official Mother's Day flower. If their
mothers are deceased they may bring white carnations
to their grave sites. This is the busiest day of the
year for American restaurants. On her special day,
family members do not want Mom to cook dinner!